not sure if seen wet dreams hanafi

They didnt mix around with men and women together discussing what it feels like for a woman and what it feels like for a man, Aoudhubillah. Rather, shyness is a part of faith, however it should not prevent you from asking. 4. Rather, modesty should be maintained when askin. The cookie is set by GDPR cookie consent to record the user consent for the cookies in the category "Functional". Why? 3. A brief summary of the requirements for the Ghusl follow. Any suggestions on how to open up the topic of puberty etc etc with children? I dont get why people need to reduce the frequency of wet dreams that they have, it is not like it is in their hands nor will Allah hold them accountable for it because it is not something wrong in of itself.. like she didnt know it was bad to touch self and stuff. How much value and peace of mind such information could add to these young people. If he does not have something the height of the back of a saddle in front of him, then his prayer is invalidated if a donkey or a woman or a black dog passes in front of him. I [Abd-Allaah] asked, O Abu Dharr, what is the difference between a black dog and a red or yellow dog? He said, O son of my brother, I asked the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) the same question, and he said, The black dog is a shaytaan (devil). (Narrated by Muslim, 510). 5. So according to this hadith, the three things that cut off a persons prayer if they pass in front of him are a woman who has reached the age of puberty, a donkey, or a black dog. After an orgasm, the wetness is called Mani.. I know this was posted like nearly ten years ago and I most likely wont get a reply but I cant find the answer to my question elsewhere, so.. Qn 1; does rape, sexual abuse, ambiguous consent, just kissing in your dreams count as a wet dream? Knowledge is power and the empowerment of these young Muslim women would so clearly come from the most perfect of sources were they aware enough or fortunate enough to be thus informed. Please note I am not qualified Islamically or medically and below is based on my own reading growing up. If it was colourless wetness then just wash the area and make wudhu. I dont exactly get what masturbation is. These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. Refer to my comment above akhi, it should clear things up inshAllah. for real long time. Is Orgasm different from the initial vaginal throbbing sensation that one feels when one has been aroused? It is also advised not to drink excessive fluids before going to bed or sleeping on a full stomach. and we dont have to ghusl. if the discharge is thin and white thats madhiy and you do not have to do ghusl just wash yourself and it is sufficient to sprinkle water on it. In this hadth, the Prophet (peace be upon him) made it clear that ghusl is only obligatory upon seeing the liquid. Sometimes some sisters get strong rhythmic contractions but they wake up and do not touch that part. He said, He does not have to do ghusl.. When both (may Allaah be pleased with them) asked the question, they were very brief and to the point. If it was deleted, please do not delete this response. Source: He said, He should do ghusl. He was asked about a man who thinks that he had an erotic dream but does not see any wetness. . please i need an answer ASAP. It is crucial that every parent have this talk with their kids, both boys and girls, and inform them about these things and the Islamic rulings on them. I didnt see any specific discharge on my underwear so I placed my hand in my private part and I felt wetness. Let us remember, as one of the shayookh on board, quoted: I have a question. i had a wet dream. I realized I saw my ex-husband, then someone else, I started worry if I saw some sexual relation etc, I was kind of sure I didnt see anything like that and didnt experience climax in the dream, but as there were parts of a dream that I didnt remember anymore, I was starting having doubts and trying to remember all. but why not? A woman will feel fulfilled and satisfied with an immediate drop of tingling in vaginal area and all sexual sensations. If someone had sex with partner night time and morning time before shower get her periods is it necessary to take shower or its ok not to take shower? How else would her child resemble her? (Bukhari). Next he took some water and ran his fingers in the roots of his hair until he used three handfuls of water on his head. I read it a while ago but as it has remained at the back of my mind I feel compelled to comment. and is their treatment the same as the one for wet dreams? If i dont indulge in these thoughts but it randomly pops into my head and i discharge is my wudu invalid? [Ala al-Din Abidin, al-Hadiyya al-Alaiyya], Allah, Most High, says: And if you are in a state of full impurity, then take a full bath. [Quran, 5:6], And Allah knows best. Thanks for posting this, very helpful! Do ghusl if:-You remember having a wet dream WITH orgasm (even if you dont SEE extra wetness). This is not a very accurate statement. and prayed and didnt know. but confused.. why this happen so intensely . Am I required to pay Zakat on a car that is owned by me, if I use it to deliver food? Yasir in the post. thankyou verymuch for this post.my question is ,for a female, if she had a sexual dream and attained orgasm (involuntary contraction of vaginal muscle with pleasure),but her private area is not extra wet..she has to make ghushal?? Try sleeping on your side or back to help stop them. The last thing to note is that in the case when a person is praying in congregation behind the Imam, then the sutrah of the Imam is sufficient for everyone praying behind him and they all dont have to put a sutrah in front of them and if some one passes in front of them then they should not stop him and he does not cut off their prayer, because they are praying behind the Imam and the sutrah of the Imam is considered a sutrah for those praying behind him, so it is enough for the Imam to pray towards a sutrah only, and if there is a need then people can pass in front of those praying behind the Imam in congregation without cutting off their prayer. As for the Hadith of Khawlah which you quoted (it is found in Sunans Ibn Majah #602 and An-Nasai #198), although it was classed as Hasan by Al-Albani (Sahih Sunan Ibn Majah #486 and Silsilah As-Sahihah #2187), it has defects in its chain: 1. And so, I want to remind the parents and the husbands to educate themselves on this subject before making any hurtful or psychologically damaging remarks to their womenfolk. And is it haram to read romance books that cause you to have sexual thoughts? The person should stand close to the sutrah and not be very far away from it, so a good distance would be such that when he goes for sujud, then there is some space between his head and his sutrah, but not too much space. You can break the ice and start educating them BUT if they are already teenagers then it will be a bit complicated to connect with thembut still possible inshaAllah, and Allah knows best. Even if they do not attend the sex-Ed class at the school, I can assure you that they will be taught by their fellow students. Umm Salamah said: Umm Sulaym came to the Messenger of Allah, sallallahu alihi wasalam, and said, O Messenger of Allah, Allah is not too shy to tell us the truth. Apparently modesty requires writing women out of history. Let me ask you a question and anyone else who may deem it acceptable to ask about such matters on a forum, with men and women speaking about their own experiences on having an orgasm or a wet dream, rather than ask a scholar: If RasoolAllaah sallallhu alayhee wsalam was reading everything in this forum, would you dare utter such words like: It is not as simple to explain the orgasm in words. The view which we adopt here at Islamweb is that whoever doubts about the discharges whether it is Maniyy or otherwise chooses one of the two and applies the ruling relevant to it. It is a strong sexual sensation that sends waves of pleasure from abdominal area to vaginal area, which makes a woman arch her back a bit and perhaps. I am a young teenager and I have recently found out about this. 2. i dont know how just by thinking about sex a person has orgasmbut if someone does then he/she has to make ghusal. If the discharge is followed by orgasm, then ghusal. Still have to take bath? Interacting with married folks on personal matters. So there is a difference between the opening dua which you stated, and the intention which is in the heart. Dont you think men are getting excited over this? or i didnt had any wetness in the first place? (sorry i will be slightly descriptive, please forgive me, but i need the right answer so i know im doing things correct) So i went to check and i had a very faint..very faint brown or really light brown spot on my pantie liner. If someone thinks that he had a wet dream, then he wakes up and does not find any wetness, he does not have to do ghusl, because of the report narrated by al-Bukhaari (130) and Muslim (313) from Umm Salamah, who said: Umm Sulaym came to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, Allah is not too shy to tell the truth. Am I required to pay Zakat on a car that is owned by me, if I use it to deliver food? Remembering an orgasm or not is of no consideration when it comes to wet dreams. You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. (Please keep in mind that female genital area is always wet, and they do not necessarily always have extra discharge upon orgasm, so the matter is not as easy to discriminate as for men). i never masturbate nor even touch my private parts for pleasure or any i just think of a guy in the need of love and suddenly i realize its just fake and try to push away those thoughts from my mind yet some times i find a colorless liquid after that, is ghusl mandatory in this case? He began searching far and wide for answers to the fundamental questions of life and was disappointed at the answers he found. Checked and Approved by Shaykh Faraz Rabbani. So Im sure if you met the Prophet Muhammad, you would have found him pleasant to be around in this matter, and would probably tell him preach on as regards telling people about this. Many times the kids are confused and dont know what is happening to them or what they have to do according to Islam, and all this confusion could be avoided if the parents simply have this short talk with their kids. All perfect praise be to Allah, The Lord of the Worlds. JazakAllah khair. Allah knows best, and Zubair Ali Zai classed it as Daif; he did not think its status could be raised, although others did . a woman can have an orgasm without any vaginal insertion, can someone please answer my question ? Aisha (ra) said: The Messenger of Allaah, sallallahu alihi wasalam, was asked about a man who notices some wetness but does not remember having a wet dream. I am a teenage Muslim. 6. However it was more like sweat or wetness left after istinja. It does not store any personal data. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. and we have to wadu in this situation? 2. I advise all of the brothers and sisters reading this, if you have a question, go to islamqaDOTcom and type in keywords of your question, 9 times out of 10, you will find your answer inshaAllaah. Performance cookies are used to understand and analyze the key performance indexes of the website which helps in delivering a better user experience for the visitors. And like the narration in Sahih Muslim in which the Prophet sallallahu alihi wasalam indicated that a mans prayer is cut off when a woman who has gotten her menstruation passes in front of him.. Can it be considered as Qarze-Hasana if failed to repay? (I know this isnt exactly what you said, I thought it was just worth mentioning). pls urgent response.. Carlos, please realize that this blog serves a dual-audience of Muslims and nons. It does not store any personal data. im hoping it will stop soon. Is there anything on this in Islam. Does a woman have to do ghusl if she has a wet dream? The Prophet said: Yes, if she sees water (a discharge). Umm Salamah covered her face and said, O Messenger of Allah, can a woman have an erotic dream? He said, Yes, may your hands be rubbed with dust. Some time ago, I gave a series of lectures on Taharah (cleanliness) to the sisters in my community. All one can do is try. Most of this is cultural. Al-Bahr Ar-Raa'iq reads: We donot say that Ghusl is obligatory because of Mathy, butbecause Maniyy becomes thin after a long period and looks just like Mathy but it is not really Mathy; this is regarding when some sleeping wakes up and finds wetness., However, the Hanbali and the Maaliki schools of jurisprudence hold that if a person knows that it is Mathy, then he is not obliged to perform Ghusl. Generally it is more common amongst teenagers and frequency reduces as you grow up (and get married giving an alternate release for your hormonal buildup). And if you dont think this had any effect on men who read this, you dont understand a mans desire. Is there any islamic advice on this. Jazakullahkharian was Salamualaykoom. ['Ala' al-Din Abidin, al-Hadiyya al-'Ala'iyya] I saw a wet dream but I wasnt doing anything wrong in my dream. For ghusl, Allah says in the Quran If you are in a state of ceremonial impurity, bathe your whole body (Al-maida 6) every part MUST be wet, not leaving out inside your earlobes, belly button, crevices, etc. More details can also be found in the first volume of Fiqh-us-Sunnah. I pray this finds you in the best of states. She has hosted several Islamic lectures and weekly halaqas in different communities all over U.S and overseas, also hosted special workshops regarding parenting, Islamic sex-ed, female sexuality, and marital intimacy. If a women experiences such a discharge should she simply clean up her vaginal area with water and make fresh wudu or is she required to make ghusl? I dont indulge in these thoughts and I dont want to think them and if they do come Im always worried if Ive discharged and im always checking. And i wake up little later worried if that breaks my wudu or ghusl because i cant really control what i am thinking at night def. They resort to learning from TV and the Internet, both of which are dangerous forms of educating oneself if not done sensibly. You hit the nail on the head! please help. She is a pastoral counselor for marriage & family, women and youth issues. The question of womens presence cutting off prayer is one issue that Sayyida Aisha (ra) disputed, and her refutation of it is noted in Sahih Bukhari: The things which annul the prayers were mentioned before me. 3.WHAT is the ruling over discharge secreted without sexual passion like that by cold or diseaseh This is how things are for men, not sure if it is the same for women or how women can differentiate between the different types of discharges, and which ones require ghusl and which ones dont. One certainly is not expected to take ones pyjamas to a lab for chemical testing. I cant remember where I read this: any ideas/clarifications? If you have a sexual dream without an orgasm do you have to do your ghusl again? Alhamdulillaah I make wudu before I go to skeep but subhanAllaah Im still having wet dreams vey frequently. It is not allowed at that point to use ones own hands or any instrument to insert or rub vaginal area to reach orgasm and feel satisfied. Zubair Ali Zai also says something similarly. .. 2. Shorter Answer: Having a wet dream during the day in Ramadan does not invalidate the fast, because this is a matter that is beyond a person's control. I would like to ask a question. Having said this, I want to encourage mothers to inform and educate their daughters about such dreams. I climaxed during a dream, but see no discharges on my underwear and feel no wetness when I touch my private parts, do I have to bath? I want to ask you something regarding similar subject. How convenient. In fact, the Shariah itself recognizes wet dreams as a sign of puberty. How can one interpret dreams given by Allah? How does this apply in an area as immense as the Kabah? May Allah ease your heart and help you get through this. 1. The intention is the fact that you for example want to pray maghrib 3 rakahs, so that intention should be in the persons heart and is not to be pronounced with the tongue before you start the prayer. p.s so sorry for my bad grammar. This may wake you up from your sleep. Sleeping position may also affect frequency of these emissions. What if u get wet after seeing any drama or m0vie scene? The website is no longer in existence. Everything thats relevant to know was in that hadith. This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. and she needs to evaluate the situation why these thoughts keeping coming back to herif she is interacting with that man then she should stop if she can. She was asking whether a woman who for whatever reason, only wears hijab for prayer, if her not wearing hijab at other times invalidates her prayer in hijab. My husband is not living with me for short period of time so of course i havent been intimate. ..its been few days that Ive noticed Im getting wet dreamsIm also a med student but am totally confused bout what shariah have for itshould weve to do ghusl? Though there is a difference of opinion whether her feet need to be covered or not but the rest of her body has to be covered, and Allah knows best. I need to know this from a Muslim. What good is a manual when its instructions become obsolete? Some savants state that since a woman's ovum fluid flows back into the vulva, it is better, as a precaution, for her to make ghusl. I would say just start talking about it. I would experience proper wet dreams last few months for the first times and wake up and researched into it a bit and do ghusul. What I worry about is, as we lie down during a nap, especially when its short, may be the sexual discharge is gathered inside but didnt flow out yet as it happens in standing position and if we urinate it will flow out with urine and we will never see/feel it and will think we dont need a ghusl while we actually need it. JazakAllah khair sister.thank u sister for solving my problem.after these dreams i felt very guilty n blamed myself. I am not sure if the fluid is mainly or math I either as it was a clear type fluid and not exactly thick almost like a normal discharge. Also, parents should take some time reading some material over this subject. For a lot of God fearing Muslims out there in different circumstances, this issue should be looked at in depth with proofs backing up the most authentic opinion. This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. 8. Thank you. No doubt sister, one must ask in order to educate themselves. even the doctors. It would be embarassing to do it as i know myself what it is. Questions cannot be asked through this form. I have an urgent question which I have been trying to search,however, could not find the answer. Khimar meaning a cloth covering her body from head down to her feet. If you had a dream in which what was seen was mainly intercourse and no wetness is found upon waking up you are not in a state of major ritual impurity (janaba) and you don't need to perform a ritual bath. Balance is always advised, but we are humans like other humans, and we make mistakes. If it is only from sexual excitement then wudu should suffice. Create an account, If you do not have an account, you can click the button below to create one, Create new account and also if she had only orgasm no dream just before she wake up she got orgasm .. with out any vaginal discharge ..she has to make ghushal? You should not get scaredjust because you think you will have a wet dream doesnt mean you will always have a wet dream There is such dire need for issues like these to be addressed. And your right, many sisters are ignorant of these issues because they dont bothering looking properly. How do I know if what Im feeling is pleasure or not? What I do when taking ghusl is rinse my mouth and clean my nose and then take a shower beause I heard and may Allaah forgive me that the whole body must be wet and there should be no dry part on your body where the water hasnt reached. I think I did post the 3 positions on mastrubation, 1. So is it necessary to do ghusal?? Saheeh Muslim, 469). is there a specific colour for the discharge when you have an orgasm during a wet dream? Or the angels who are with you recording everything you do to be questioned on the Day of judgement? May Allah reward you, Umm Reem, for clarifying this for the Muslim female population especially the reverts, who have no biological Muslim mothers/sisters to guide them in their immediate family. It is not allowed at that point to use ones own hands or any instrument to insert or rub vaginal area to reach orgasm and feel satisfied. i dont want this to lead me astray. There was a time when I was unmarried, in college(with fitna EVERYWHERE especially during summer sessions), and abstaining from masturbationthese 3 factors increased the frequency of my wet dreams to at times 3 times a night So how about when Allaah, Who sees everything including whats in our hearts, is Watching. Puberty is a continuum and can begin around age 9-10, starting with development of breasts, pubic and underarm hair, a growth spurt, and then menses.

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